THE MAN IN THE MIRROR

Thinking of his newly acquired assets, a Man once soliloquized "i've got everything i need in life, am richer now! Let her tell me who i am!" The Self is a key construct in several schools of psychology, referring to the cognitive and affective representation of ones identity. The earliest formulation of the self in modern psychology from the distinction between the self as I, the subjective Knower, and the self as Me, the object that is known.

Current views of the self in psychology diverge greatly from this early conception, positioning the self as playing an integral part in the human motivation, cognition affect and social identity. Self, following from John Locke, has been seen as a product of episodic memory, but research upon those with amnesia find they have a coherent sense of self based upon preserved conceptual autobiographical knowledge.

What an abstract notion in the citation above of the 'concluded rich Man.' In his conscious he acknowledged his wealth but inadequate, he still looks for more of appellations and cognomen. In his supposed fulfillment he still could not accept his own thought or concept of his personality. At peak he lost conformity and self 'evaluationability.' His transparency lacked visibility and seasonability. Heinz Kohut initially proposed a bipolar self compromising two systems of narcissistic Perfection: 1) A system of ambitions
2) A system of ideals. Heinz Kohut called the pole of ambitions the narcissistic self. (later grandiose self ), while the pole of ideals was designated the idealized parental image. According to Kohut, this poles of the self represented natural progressions in the psychic lives of infants and toddlers- little wonder was the Man a 'Big Baby'?

In the wake of thought, the lane of ideas must grace the expectations of the mind. Thus, the mind and concept are interwoven as one would rather mean noting but useless he isolated. Kohut argued that when the child's ambitions and exhibitionistic were chronically frustrated, Arrests in the Grandiose Self, led to the preservation of a false, expansive sense of self that could manifest outwardly, in the visible grandiosity of frank narcissist or remain hidden from view unless discovered in a narcissistic therapeutic transference ( or Selfobject Transference) that would expose this primitive grandiose fantasies and striving. If you discover how talk your ideas out-grow your taste, then-if not intended-you should have more than enough satisfied a public rather a ratiocinate. If you think you're fulfilled, its not more than you think, otherwise its a feign of fulfillment. Kohut termed this form of transference a mirror transference! Which likely either gives a fake or real identity. Watch The Reflector You're Using! To be continued....